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Amy Kitchens's avatar

Brilliantly stated. For anyone who gets upset or offended, we have freedom of speech, at least in America where I am. Your series, I am grateful for. It helped me to navigate and process and know that I wasn't alone. On a routine visit today to the eye doctor who I've been seeing for 20 years. She said she had a patient come in and burst out crying, because the man's adult child had abandoned him and he couldn't understand why. That man was also a widower like me. The great irony is karma is gonna be a real b**** for these kids, when they get to a certain age, if they have any conscience, if they have any spine, if they have any insight into themselves, they are going to be very sad and very disappointed. Alas, some will not because I do believe as Dr. Joshua Coleman has stated, some of these children might have undiagnosed mental issues. No matter what the cause thank you, thank you so much. I cannot begin to tell you how much it helped me to move forward to set this aside and go forward with my life in the best way that I can. I'm not even going to harbor disappointment with my son because I don't want to take up any negative energy. I hope all these children find what they're looking for and go through this life happy because many of them, such as my son, had nothing, nothing to be so disgruntled about. Peace be with you. Thank you for my peace. Namaste 🙏

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Christine B's avatar

That you've used AI to build and then deconstruct the estrangement ideology is fascinating. For the longest time (9 years to be exact) I've felt that something was happening in our culture to our kids, who'd for the most part been loving and happy in their families growing up. Our children began using words and behaving in a way that was seemingly lockstep because of how widespread it became. All of a sudden, parents - good parents, by most metrics - were now labeled "toxic," "narcissistic," "manipulative," "emotionally immature," etc... Your series explaining how and why all of it seemed to be happening suddenly and rampantly gave me a great deal of clarity. Thank you so much.

I have several friends and family members who are also experiencing estrangement, so I knew I wasn't alone, but the "script" that you've uncovered opened my eyes to estrangement truly being an ideology. Using AI to develop the structure and nuances of it was extremely thorough helpful to me. I'm curious though, when you mention that you had to recondition where AI was headed as you submitted prompts, what kind of responses were you getting that you had to recondition it? I hope that's something that you bring up in your next series. In almost any argument, using a person's words back to them often has the most impact. If we can learn how to push back on the prescribed narrative using AI's own system, that has the potential to help show the alternatives and negatives of estrangement to a broader audience.

Again, thank you very much.

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